There are several questions to answer.
First, whether or not you need a receiver to raise or lower the ball depends entirely on the trailer you’re going to pull. But if I had to bet, I would say the ball is going to be higher than the receiver. The rental place should be able to put the trailer level and give you a height measurement for your ball before you go there.
Second regarding a WDH, it again depends entirely on the trailer you’re going to pull. But I highly doubt you’re going to find a 25 foot trailer for much less than 3500 to 4000 pounds. That means you’ll have at least 400 to 500 pounds of tongue weight, probably more. That much weight on the tongue is going to load up your rear axle significantly, while unloading your front steering axle. Without a WDH to redistribute that weight, the handling of the vehicle will be quite compromised. So I would say yes, you absolutely need a WDH. A 25 footer is significantly longer than the wheel base of your tow vehicle. You will definitely want an anti-sway set up too. Some WDH systems have it built in.
Third, as for experience, yes. I have a 26 foot travel trailer that weighs just over 4200 pounds dry. When I am pulling it and we are going camping I am actually 100 lbs over the GCWV. I have a WDH and dual friction sway bar setup. I originally tried it with just one and it only took 20 minutes on the highway to know it needed a second. I am not advocating for towing so heavy, but I can say that the MDX does a very good job.
I also monitor transmission temperature constantly. It allows me to know when to slow down, gear down, or stop (if necessary) to keep the transmission from overheating. After 5000+ miles I have it figured out pretty good now. But ambient temperature also plays a role. I would never tow heavy without it. I use a ScanGauge II.
Lastly, you will need tow mirrors to extend your viewing distance on the sides of the vehicle. Without them, you will not be able to see down the side of the trailer.
If you have more questions, feel free to ask.
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